One true love

internet_love_by_tipsyfairyIn most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this isn’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse love with…
It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may only want sex. And after it all the misunderstandings start, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.
Another variety is when people lack support, care and attention for the other person or they are just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.

But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages or even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t even have to say anything sometimes because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing else matters. True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of his partner.
Two people who don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes even if they are apart. It’s said that two people who are truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say things like “this is yours and this is mine”, they mostly share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems, etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “You I belong with me” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy. Jealousy stands far from true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive over and over again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect. True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of the soul.

But the question what true love is, still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. I believe that there is someone right out there for everyone. The truth is that no one should spend their life chasing ideals or building up relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this searching. When the time is right, you’ll meet them.
We should remember that we need many things to supply our healthy and comfortable living, but only the true feeling of love really makes life longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved. :)

I’m happy to say: I can call myself very very lucky, cause I have found my one true love :* Hopefully he has found his true love in me, and we’ll be together for the rest of our lifes, and celebrate more anniversaries, not just our 3rd! :)

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